America's Oil Rehab
“Step 1: Admitted we had a problem and that our lives had become unmanageable.”
- Alcoholics Anonymous
Like any addiction, America’s dependence on oil is making our country increasingly unmanageable. Our near-term future is actually quite predictable. It is a well-worn path followed by every alcoholic, cigarette smoker and compulsive gambler. We won’t fix our problem until we “bottom-out” and face recovery straight in the face. Intervention is required but the first step is actually admitting we have problem…Houston.
Denial is a powerful element of addiction for a very good reason. If you are an addict, be it booze, pills or Skittles fruit candy (my vice) you have become one precisely because facing your problems is so daunting and repugnant a task, that harming your body, losing your friends and ruining your life actually becomes a preferable alternative! This is clearly not rational and such warped thinking can only be achieved with lots and lots of D&D (drugs and denial). It is a vicious cycle where things get worse from the drugs, resulting in a need for more drugs and more reasons to escape. Until the very end, denial keeps the addict blissfully unaware even when it is as clear as day to everyone around them. The downward spiral doesn’t end until it can no longer be ignored. For addicts, this is called “bottoming out” and it is the first and most important step in recovery. Ironically, “bottoming out” is almost celebrated in the recovery world because a) by definition, there is nowhere to go but up and b) the addict has now learned that they have to face their issues head on. They can no longer put a band-aid on a bullet hole. So begins a long, slow, painful process of learning how to live all over again but learning a better way to live.
And what, exactly is the “right way” to live? Turns out, at its simplest, it is a life of service, of helping others. Twelve-step recovery is founded on the principle that addiction is simply obsessive-compulsive behavior. You stop being obsessive when you stop being self-centered and begin thinking about others and living “outside of yourself”. No one who learns this escapes feeling skeptical that a concept so simple can work as a philosophy of life. Fewer still, overlook the irony inherent in the fact that the less energy you spend trying to make yourself happy, that happier you actually become. However, anyone who’s been through recovery or is close to someone who has, knows exactly what I’m talking about.
3 Comments:
Well said! :) I love watching people with SUVs and Hummers now. They don't look quite as happy, do they?
-N
N, checkout www.carolliebau.blogspot.com a blog I found. Not that I want to advertise her site but she is a perfect example of "conservadroid" I found it amusing.
Nice blog "draino". Thanks for commenting on my feeble attempts. Judging from your postings, we travel similar pathways.
Regards,
TheRef
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